I went back to school.
“College? you may ask?
Nope. Elementary school!
On Aug 3 I became the communications coordinator for the Evergreen Park Elementary School District 124.
I’m super excited but I’ve already ran into an issue.
I don’t know what to wear to work. I’m used to throwing on whatever is near me when I drop my daughter, Donae, curbside at school.
“Mom, why do you always wear sunglasses in the morning-even when it’s cloudy,” she asked? I did not respond. I think she’s on to me.
“Bye. Have a great day!” I say before nervously driving away, hoping not to be seen. The bus picks up my second daughter, Rhonda-Rene, from our house shortly thereafter. It’s not so easy to dodge them, seeing how I have to help her on the bus.
“Morning,” I shout to the driver. Once Rhonda-Rene’s touched that top step, I flutter off like a butterfly.
I’m usually embarrassed by my disheveled appearance.
When I enter the premises of my new job this year, I hope to appear more appropriate. I’ll be in and out of all five schools.
It’s great that I get to write since it’s like breathing. If I couldn’t do it I’d wither like an unwatered plant. It’s also fun that I get to take pictures seeing how I’m ridiculously addicted to photography. You should hear my husband Don, “You paid how much for that lens?”
This position is perfectly suited for me because of the kids. I love being able to engage the youth in my community. I believe the biggest impacts are made on small levels. I find it crucial that we seek to establish genuine relationships with all children, not just our own.
I started volunteering in D124 two years ago when Donae entered kindergarten and Rhonda-Rene, preschool. I was a fulltime stay-at-home mom who wanted to be hands-on in partnering with the school for my kids’ education.
But after the first class, I began to bond with all the kids. I found them to be inquisitive, intelligent and funny, very funny! One preschooler said to me, “What? Are you one of those good moms or something? Is that why you’re always coming here?”
So preschoolers can quantify what being a good parent is? Well, in this little girls mind, a present parent is a good one.
Not all of them were easy on me though. I got put in check on a day I felt inclined to provide a reinforced directive the teacher had given.
“Come on guys, time to clean up.” I said to two little boys that continued to play against the teacher’s request. One of them looked me straight in the eye and said, “Oh no. You’re Rhonda-Rene’s mom!”
In other words, you don’t tell me what to do Mrs. Parker! He sure told me! I got a little chuckle out of that one.
Someone once told me I should have been a teacher and that I’d missed my calling.
I disagreed totally after seeing what teachers actually do in the classroom. I have huge respect for teachers and the stamina it takes to engage, teach and direct an entire class of 20 plus students. Nope, that’s a calling I do not possess. It’s hard work being a teacher that’s why as a parent I provide as much support to them as possible. It’s not all their responsibility to teach my kids, it’s a collaborate effort.
I encourage all parents to volunteer in some capacity. The schools could really use your help.
I’m looking forward to getting to know the students as I go back to school myself.